Gone fishing for money!

Hello my little puppets, honored fellow ladies and a few people who I don’t care about one way or the other. LOL, quiet the address isn’t it. The facts are the facts however. I know who and what is lurking half the time on my Blogs and I can always see when my traffic increases to my Blogs.

Most of the time it is an outrageous Blog post that makes your poor cocks stiff and the ladies think if this is something they want to try for themselves. Stop right there buster before you take that wrong. I am not calling anyone a Copycat here, matter of fact that gets on my last nerve most of the time. There is very little in human nature that has not been done before, I don’t think any of us hold patents on what is being done. What is unacceptable however is the theft of “content or words”. With other words, do you own damn talking or thinking! If you want to copy mine then give me a damn link back and the credit.

So today’s topic is: Gone fishing for money!

I am talking about the base down advertisements, marketing skills and bragging posts of financial domination that you will find all over the internet, forums, websites etc. You have different types of financial Dom/mes (yes you keep forgetting that guys are often in this as well. Gays actually are a lot more generous with their Masters then most straight / bi subs are with their Mistresses) as I have mentioned many times before.

For some it is “the fetish they enjoy” and truly don’t care all that much if they do make money or gifts or not. They just like the attention and the begging turns them on. For them it is their “lifestyle”, but they enjoy the journey so much more then the destination.

Your fulltime Financial Dom/mes, who have almost specialized into this and they are both turned on, empowered and yes very business like about this endeavor. Those are the ones you will see advertising more, marketing their particular skills and be in your face about it.

You Sugar Babies posing as Financial Dom/mes. Now there is nothing wrong with being a Sugar Baby if you want to let yourself go down that path, but it is not financial domination in any way. However, they too are heavily advertising themselves and more often then not their marketing skills truly are up to par.

And then you have the cross in betweens of course.

Now, as you can guess I am in the second category with a bit of first category mixed in. I am very much about the destination, but surely enjoy the journey as well. However, it is part of my fulltime profession and hence I do demand to be paid for my time.

In many ways it is as if I am selling a Product I believe in 100%. I have to believe in that product or I could not be affective at selling it. The Product is ME, my time and yes my skill as a manipulative, seductive, powerful and knowledgeable Financial Domme.

If I do not believe in myself, then I am not only going to sink, but will also let others walk straight over me. Ever since “financial domination” has become popular and almost mainstream, it has changed a lot from what it used to be. Now it is really more about the instant gratification of the submissive then the adoration and worship of the Mistress. It has largely become a “TRADE” to be completed. Don’t even bother putting your nose up in the air about that one. This is fetish straight talk, remember?

No Mistress is going to waste her time anymore with “subs” for long until they have proven to be worthy of her attention. You see with so much written text on the internet, any idiot now can read and repeat what they find. Nobody can tell on the internet if that person is real, truly feeling what they say or not. You are hidden behind a big smoke screen and largely it becomes an illusionary feat. So, is it prudent to not get too invested into a new seeker? I would say so.

But what about the submissives? How can they find out if the Lady is real or not. DO YOUR HOMEWORK! I have said that so often before. Research the lady a little. A Website alone doesn’t make you a financial Domme. A famous name or being on tons of financial domination fetish sites doesn’t either. You can brag about your accomplishments until the cows come home and it still can be made up or copied.

However, have a chat with the person sometime in one of the Chat rooms sometime and really listen to how she answers questions. Can she answer question. See where all you can find her on the internet. Does she have other interests? How is she represented?

This will tell you a lot about this person. I am all over the internet under Goddess Bella Donna, Regina Sunderland (my real name and the one I write under), Mysteria on Niteflirt and several others. I interlink just about everything I do, so you can get the big picture of who you are dealing with.

If you want to chat with me in private on my Yahoo Messenger you can, but be prepared to at least show your appreciation of my work and time.

Reality is that NOTHING is ever for FREE. Not for me and not for you either. You want to be turned on and I want your money. You love me and I love your money. You amuse me (if you are lucky) or even your money won’t be enough to keep me sticking around.

I put a lot of time and effort into what I do. Again I am my own Product which I foster, develop, care for and yes market 150% of the Time. I will make a sell so to speak and you are my prospective “Costumer”, only you don’t get to call the shots. I DO.

Is there a money back guarantee? NO, although I had plenty of boys be shit heads and give gifts just to cancel them after they got off. That is also part of what you have to accept and deal with. Like I said…. Gone fishing for money.

Every time you see one of the Blog Posts coming up, it is fishing for money. Fishing for someone that a. has the funds to tribute, b. gets off tributing so he/she will return often, c. will amuse you so you are willing to deal with them repeatedly, d. advance you further both in mind and finances.

DON’T STOP THERE. Learning from what you have done wrong is also part of fishing for money. What is the ultimate Goal of a financial Domme? Come on think!

To find high quality piggies, cash cows, money slaves who are both willing and able to tribute her in an agreed upon fashion, who will be both amusing and loyal as much as possible. To find a “large” quantity of “tribute as they go” piggies (fly by boys or occasional financial fetishists who really are only into it for the quick satisfaction).
To have a decent to luxuries lifestyle that allows them to effectively find above named submissive and in the end have them help in providing the desired lifestyle, which in turn should give the submissive sublime pleasure and a feeling of success.

Here is the catch 22 however. By showing your intelligence and making yourself available to said submissives in more then the typical “Gimme write ups” you scare most of them to death. Greed they can deal with, half naked bodies they adore, a wicked mind is fantastic as long as it stays fetish oriented, but give them something they can actually “fall in love with” and it becomes scary.

Males by their very nature are “commitment challenged” and so you have to find the fine line between giving too much of your-self and not enough.

Finding your submissive piggies is really like fishing for fish. You need to find the right bait to lure them in, understanding the climate of the pond you are fishing in and if you see that it is too crowded with Fishermen cut bait and move on.
Remember that even the smallest fish is good for something, even if it just to “cut him up” and use him for bait for bigger fish. No I don’t want you to actually cut people up here, but I mean you have someone that adores you so much they can’t stop talking about you. Or you can tell them all about how he begged to serve you etc.
Readers eat that up, that is why so many posts are “glory posts”.

Use your mind wisely and don’t ever put all your eggs into one basket Ladies. Submissive males are much like children. They love to sample sweets, but are often unable to buy. Keep yourself innovative and new, but true to your personality.
Don’t be afraid to speak your mind, but be aware that there are 100’s of “Ladies” out there that are just waiting to cut you to shreds. So be able to back up what you are saying. There is nothing worst then a vicious tongue, understand what you are up against.

And realize that even so males are “disgusted” by that show of unladylike behavior it is just like female wrestling, they tune in to see the “”fly.

That is it for today. As always if you are going to use what I write, please give the copyright to me and a link back. I appreciate it.

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