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Grab a piece of paper and a pencil right now and without analyzing what you write down, simply answer the following Questions:

#1 Why are you involved in financial domination?

#2 Am I happy participating in financial domination?

#3 How often have I been disappointed in the last 12 month by financial Dommes or subs?

#4 What was the biggest lesson I learned during the last 12month online?

#5 Where do I see myself in regards to financial domination in 1 Year from now?

#6 If I could change ANYTHING about MYSELF in regards to financial domination what would it be?

#7 What other fetish or BDSM interests do you have besides financial domination?

Please type down the answers to the questions without censoring them first. (Yeah right I know most will polish them up to look nicely)

Here were my first thought answers!

#1 Why are you involved in financial domination?

Because I get turned on by the feeling it gives me to take money from men who had to work so very hard to make it. I enjoy taking what they treasure the most (money) and using it for my personal enjoyment and advancement. Because I love being spoiled and not having to worry half as much about making money to get the things I would like to have and need. Because I feel deep down that I am worth every penny and more then I receive and in the course of my other fetishes and training, I am due the money for the time I spend. Because I love financial domination and holding control over material power and possessions of others. Because I enjoy being the complete opposite of what I was always taught to be, with other words instead of a nice girl that always gives, gives, gives and gets used all the time by guys, I finally allow myself to be the taker and be greedy. Because it gives me a high like you would never believe to have a submissive / fetishist or slave beg to hand me his hard earned cash and to know that I am giving him the biggest orgasm (mentally) of his life as I graciousely accept it. Because it is now at my later stage in life a part of me. Because I love money and you love me! Because, being glorious costs money and my slaves should find it necessary to pay for me. Because to me financial domination is not a stand alone, but a tie in fetish and everything I do costs money, so it is only natural for me to require a payment for my time and my training. Because I have always had my real time slaves, my formerly owned slave begift me from their own free will and that was simply part of their slavery. These days they call it financial domination, I used to see it as simply being part of being a slave.

#2 Am I happy participating in financial domination?

Off and on these days. I get very often extremely disappointed and frustrated by the lies, the fakery and the trying to be better then anyone else I see happening. I enjoy those boys and Ladies who are truthful, honest and forth right in their behaviors and speech, but have a hard time adjusting to the new breed of online financial domination and submission. I find it disturbing that financial domination has been so destorted and has become such an elitist fantasy play instead of a true adoration of the Goddess within us. I hate gameplayers and am often too straight forward for my own good, costing me potential submissives and piggies, but then I am thinking again that those who would rather have text book words are not worth my time anyways.

#3 How often have I been disappointed in the last 12 month by financial Dommes or subs?

Truthfully at least 90% of the time out of the folks I meet from both sides. So many are simply fronters and then we have those who love to destroy the reputation of another only because they think differently then they do. I miss the Sisterhood of Dommes / Mistresses / Goddesses that we used to enjoy. Yes, women by their nature are always a bit catty and sadly very back stabbing, but as of late it has become even worst then it used to be. As far as the subs go? Well, I see very few true submissive males anymore and often just hear them uttering text book grab at me, or tell me what they think I want to hear. Seldom are promises followed through to the end or the go for looks alone rather then knowledge. Shrugs..it is a grab shoot really, but those that are legit and please me (both Ladies and subs) since I often feel like a bit of a matron around here anymore, make all the others worth while.

#4 What was the biggest lesson I learned during the last 12month online?
Don’t belief anything anyone on the web tells you and promises you. Keep your real life lessons close to your heart, because they go double online. Nothing online ever is what it appears to be. Fantasy is out of hand online, and the subs really have no idea of what they are getting into. They want, want, want but can not really figure out what that want is, then get pissed off at you when you are actually give them what they ask for. Power around here seems to be located in a piece of folds between a women’s legs online, instead of her mind…or so the guys seem to think, and sadly there is more judgementality in BDSM / Fetish these days then there has been in Church…YUK

#5 Where do I see myself in regards to financial domination in 1 Year from now?

I will be still around and it will still be part of me and what I do. Since I am not just putting it on as a cape to take off if I don’t get rich. I will in due time find my group of 13 Acolytes to fill my temple halls the way I desire and will hopefully be able to travel without a worry thanks to their deligent work and tributes to me. With other words, I hope that in a year from now I will finally be treated like the ultimate Goddess I see myself as. (not that any other Goddess is less then me, I am simply seeing my own best side of me. I hope you do too for yourself). It will become even stronger integrated in the various other fetishes I have and I hope to take it more real time again, if I can get out of the location I am currently residing in. I am going to become even more well known then I already am, both online as well as real time again, coming out of semi seclusion and be known not for my Tits and Ass, but for the Domme / Goddess I am.

#6 If I could change ANYTHING about MYSELF in regards to financial domination what would it be?
Be a little less giving and a lot more taking, but that is not something I can change because care for my piggies and subs is a natural behavior for me.

Your turn, both sides!

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On a Side Note.
Goddess is going on Vacation to Estes Park August 20th to Sept 5th. To Mr. Cherry Pie, whom I hope is reading this post I would like to make a request for you to verify the funds with Alertpay you have begifted me. They want to make sure you received your product. Please take care of that for me. Thank you.!

I believe that is really doesn’t hurt to question your-self from time to time, to either realize where you are really standing at this point in your life, if what you are doing is really for you, if you have improved and found your own personal path etc.

I know I chart my personal growth via a Journal. That goes for everything I do in my life and is interesting to see how my thoughts, desires, likes, dislikes and interests change as time goes by. To those of you who scuff at this thought, let me bid you farewell now, I am happy you are perfectly happy with yourself and your life and don’t feel you can improve anywhere. Perhaps one day I will reach that level of elite supremacy, until then I hope to continue growing in all my fields, in all my understanding and wisdom. Hopefully I will be granted a long time and many opportunities to fine tune my own perfection and evolve a bit more.

How to use this self-questionnaire!

You can print it out and answer the questions to yourself. Copy them into your own journal and answer / date it there and review them every 6 months to a year. Or you may use them as a Blog Post with your own Answers on your Blog (in that case I would request a link back to this Magazine) since this is under intellectual copyright.

For Submissives, if you feel you want to use this questionnaire to get to know a new to you potential Mistress, feel free to copy and paste it. But realize that you are running a risk of pissing her off. Not all Mistresses like to be questioned. (Personally, I think that if you get the answer: I am perfect, fuck you, you should move along) However gents, the same rule goes for you. I want a link back or mention where you found this!

Note: For the purpose of showing what I mean I have answered the Questions right here as they pertain to myself. You want to erase my answers when using them for yourself. I will not look kindly on having you steal my answers!

The Domme Questionnaire

1.) Is being a Pro-domme / Financial Goddess purely for financial purposes.
No, it is not purely for my financial purposes. It is part of my income since I do this fulltime and work in different Venues related to this “topic”. I also do it because I love what I do, which is one of the reasons I am trying to educate as honestly as I can about this particular fetish. Trying to elevate some of the false feelings about it on a bigger scale then just with those that wish to serve me. I think financial domination has some very therapeutically useable sides to it, if the Mistress cares for her “subjects”. I for one do not like alcoholics, refuse drugs and make a decent healthy living a requirement to being part of my Temple. Which means that I spend a lot of time just setting their life to rights.

2.) What do I feel when I first become contacted by a new to me submissive?

Depends on the submissive contacting me and how that contact is being done. If it is just a smooch up visit (Oh you are so perfect), and I get the vibe that he is just kissing my ass and stroking his cock, I am more annoyed then anything else. If the person is respectful, comes to me with a very well thought out desire to serve me and to get to know me, ready at that moment and willing to show that he can in the long run tribute to me with a small gift of MY CHOICE, not his, then I am elated, excited and have often put things aside to talk to him. AT that point I have a big excitement running to me and it is like opening up a brand new book I have never read in before. I am curious to discover what those pages hold. So a new to me sub should always be best advised to have some time when coming to me the first time. I will make one tribute request and have tons of questions.

3.) Do I require an initial Tribute when dealing with a new to you submissive / piggy?

Yes, I do. A small Tribute (between $20 – $100 depending on his budget) usually I have him chose the amount, but do it in a way I chose)

4.) If yes, why?

To see if he indeed is willing to tribute in the long run, is able to make tributes or is just wasting my time. How eager he is to follow through. How much he will choose to Tribute to me and how he reacts after the Tribute has been made. Plus it gives him a chance to see how I deal with good bois.

5.) Am I ever not in the mood to deal with my submissives / piggies?

Very seldom. I must have a really bad day in which I still allow them into my presence, but warn them that I have a bad day and that they may wish to tread lightly. Only if I have a family emergency will I not wish to talk to them, because I can not focus on their needs then.

6.) When a submissive lies or does not fill his assignment, how do I feel?

Annoyed, hurt, betrayed, and less likely to ever believe you again. Lies is something I can not stand!

7.) What is my strong point as I perceive it?

That I truly care about those that serve me. I get into their heads and try my best to bring them to the peak of their abilities in all areas of their life. I “love” those that serve me faithfully and they become part of my family. I am very protective of my family.

8.) What fetishes turn me personally on (physically) the most?

This is where I get actually wet when I do it. Latex and Leather make me feel extremely sexy. Fingernails I love having my Fingernails done nicely or do them myself. I love it when they are fancy, but seldom indulge myself. Shoes and Boots. I love new sexy shoes. I love the way they look on my feet, the way the lift my ass, the way they show my legs off to their best advantage. I am exhibitionist in my personal life and love knowing that I arouse men and women alike. I have no qualms about taking my clothe off when I FEEL LIKE IT. But when it comes to my subs, I love making them “pay me” for it. Not with extra cash, but with enduring something they don’t like too much for me. Wigs! Black Opals! Yes I can actually almost cum from receiving a Jewelry Piece that has black Opals in them. The fire in them draws me and arouses me.

9.) What fetishes turn me personally on (mentally) the most?

How many hours do you have? Most of my arousal usually is in the mind and does not go to my cunt. I can hit a natural top high through: cuckoldry, foot and shoe worship, bondage, cbt, smoking fetishes (from mild to torture), tease and denial, mind manipulation, mind reprogramming (not to be confused with hypnosis, because I do not put you under, I simply mesmerize you and have you bend your will to mine), Goddess Worship (verbally – must be done the way I trained you or else you just annoy me), puppy training, mental bondage, spankings, objectification, vibrator play, sissy training, anal training, personal attendance.

10.) Which BDSM activities do I enjoy the most?

Real time: Bondage, waxing, puppy play, spankings, flogging, cbt, maid training, canning, mental bondage, stretching, nipple play, paddles,

11.) What are my personal limits?

Needles, Age play (I refuse to pretend I am a Teenager or underage for anyone, matter of fact I would have to turn you in), Blood (no cutting), Bestiality, Children (shouldn’t have to say it, but sadly you better include it), ruination, black mail (since bois just can’t be trusted anymore), roman showers, brown cow, (that is all I can think of right now)

12.) Do I belong to any REAL TIME Group, BDSM organization, attend munches or would like to?

No, I have stopped belonging or going to those about 8 years ago.

13.) If yes, which?

See above
14.) If no, why?

Too many politics. I have the posturing, the Elitist BS, and it has become a joke in most places. I do not believe in Hierarchies and am not a herd animal. There is just nothing lately that I find enticing about them anymore. At least here in Las Vegas.

15.) Do I belong to any online Groups, BDSM organizations?

Yes I am a Member of a couple Financial Domination Groups.

16.) If yes, which?

http://www.myfinancialdommespace.com is the main one.

17.) What is the most important personality trade I look for in a submissive / piggy?

Honesty, loyalty, intelligent behavior, being able to think for your-self, knowing when to follow or wait for orders and when to be creative and think for him/her self. The desire to really serve me and not just serve their own purposes. Willingness to be trained in my ways. The desire to actually get to know me and not just worship an illusion.

18.) What is the most important financial trade I look for in a submissive / piggy?

A steady job, which allows him/her to worship me, tribute to me without putting him-self into jeopardy. Being aroused by tributing to me, wanting to do so on his own accord, and understanding that being allowed to give his gifts to me is a privilege not a right.

19.) Do I have different sets of requirements for online only and real time subs?

Yes, I do.

20.) If yes, which and why?

One is the Age requirement. My real time Submissives have to be at a minimum of 35 Years old, where I have permitted online submissives as young as 21 years old.
I have stronger rules for my real time subs, since they are in direct physical contacts with me. I have to screen them out a lot better then when they are purely serving me online.
I have a longer consideration period for my real time submissive bois that actually wish to serve me.

21.) What is the one thing that drives a lot of submissives/ piggies away from me?

That I am very verbal and thorough plus do not like to be played around with. I do not date my subs, I do not fuck my subs and for me it is truly about service. The rest is icing on your cakes. Most do not like that they do have to tribute for my time, even when they profess to have a financial fetish. I do not mince words and I expect a lot out of my bois.

22.) What is the one thing that I do not always feel comfortable with about myself?

I am an open book! I do not hide ANYTHING and with that probably often give too much information, which just scares them away.

23.) Why do you not change it or what are you doing to change it?

I don’t change it because I live by example. With other words those that will love and worship me, will love and worship not an illusion. Besides if I expect others to be honest, I do not need to act as if I am so Mysterious. LOL which is funny since my call name on Niteflirt is Mysteria. Just an illusion.

24.) Am I PERFECT in every way?

Oh hell no! I have flaws like everyone else. I grow older, have tempers at times, get tired, and my body does get wrinkles with time. But I am perfectly me, meaning I am more then secure in who I am, which to me is something that is extremely important. I know that I stand up under scrutiny which is something a lot of Dommes can not say. So yes, I am proud of who I am.

25.) Which fetishes / BDSM Areas are out there you have not done yet, but are interested in finding out more about?

Well I have done a bit of it, but would like to learn more about “Fire Play!” “Electro Play” and “Hypnosis – the real one not the so called Porno Hypnosis I see so much these days.”

26.) Would you be willing to learn something from your submissive?

Absolutely. I have done so in the past and hope I get the chance to do so in the future. We all have wonderful things we can bring to the table and if a sub has something I have not done or used and he wishes to share it with me, I am an eager student. As long as he realizes his position, which is at least respectfully
27.) Have you ever had any experience as a submissive?

Yes, I have for several years. Which is also how I learned to respect my subs more then most would, how I learned being a submissive is not for me, and learning the flip side of it all. I have given workshops and written Articles from both Slave and Mistress perspective and have shared many of my own experiences. I have learned what neglect can do to a sub, what a carelessness or lies can do. I am not a Switch, I never was. I have simply walked both sides at separate times and have realized that I am a Domme and not suited to be anything else mentally, emotionally and physically.
My experiences as slave are documented on the internet in text, videos and membership site etc, which will not be updated ever again.

28.) If yes, are you open and honest about it?

Very, I don’t think there is anything to be embarrassed about it. If anything it has made me better at what I do, gave me a better insight and has made me more demanding, yet merciful at the same time. I would not wish to have missed this experience.

29.) If you hide it, why do you feel it necessary to hide it?

30.) If yes, what has it meant to you in finding submissive males wishing to serve you?

It has made it a lot more difficult, since a lot of guys have that stupid Idea that you are either born one thing or the other. I hear that word natural born X or Y, in reality I would say you get reborn into it. You may have some personality trades that will give you the interest in one area or the other, but just because you are aggressive or demanding, does not mean you are a good Dom/me.
Likewise just because you are shy, subservient, submitted means you are automatically submissive.

31.) Do you believe in ALL ABOUT me, or do you enjoy rewarding and bringing the best out in your submissive?

To my sub it should be All About me, that is there job. For me it is part of my nature to reward, to explore the edges of your being, to fine tune you, to make you a better you and turning raw material into a Treasure I can be proud of having by my side.

32.) What would you consider yourself? (Elitist, Down to earth, One of a kind, not a herd Mistress)

Down to earth and one of a kind. I am unique in the ways I have developed, like finger prints there are never two exactly alike. I do not enjoy the term Elitist, since to me it just has too much bragging to it. But that is just me. I am a Goddess, which is enough.

33.) Do you ever get discouraged and question if it is even worth being a Mistress and if yes what makes you question it?

Yes, when I watch some of the developments on the online slaveries. When I have a streak of idiot subs applying and it wastes more of my time and nervous then brings me pleasure.

34.) If you do, why do you stick it out?

Because it is part of who I am plus for every bad time there are good ones. I try to remember, that there has to be bad to go with the good. I am curious to see what is around the next corner.

35.) How do you see your submissives?

Again depends on the relationship we have.
My real time servants, sometimes as much as once or twice a week.
My “clients” (Pro-Sessions) whenever they schedule and appointment I feel like taking it.
My online subs depending on their service to me, how much they amuse me and which standing they are in anywhere from once a week to almost daily.

36.) How much do you like to be involved in your subs life? Both online and real time?

As much as possible. I want to know everything there is to know and they are comfortable sharing with me. Remember that a submissive needs to see me as his confidant as well, be able to come to me with problems away from the BDSM Realm in order to serve me well. So the more I know about him, his live etc, the better. Besides depending on how deeply his level of service to me, the deeper I start mapping his life out for him.

37.) Have you ever owned or collared real time?

Yes, I have. 2 Males and 1 female.

38.) Have you ever owned or collared online only?

No I came close one time, but it just didn’t work out.

39.) What is your Goal ultimately as a Financial Domme and as a Pro-domme?

I would like to bring this part of my life fully to the front lines, with other words be able to concentrate my efforts fully on those that serve me. But in order to do this, I would need to have a set amount of steadily loyal tributing submissives that I can count on to take care of my needs. At this moment I am reluctant to put myself out like that, since that is often not understood by submissives. This will then enable me to start traveling and visiting my USA online Piggies and give them the thrill to serve real time at my feet.

I would like to find 7 Clients (Pro-sessions) which I see on a regular base for a minimum of 2 hours.

I would like to establish a strong reliable Temple online with 12 good and loyal piggies who will take care of my needs and wants. With a minimum weekly tribute of $100 or a minimum monthly tribute of $250.00 depending on the situation they wish to fill.
Plus one worthy Temple Priest who will become my second in command and will “herd” my piggies for me.
At that point I will hold Temple Services for ALL my servants on a pre-arranged time.

Plus I would like to reach a Membership count of a minimum 100 for my Membership Section.

I would also like to have ALL my real time positions filled with good and valuable servants

40.) Do you have a problem with the stigmata attached to either phrase and why?
Yes, I do! Because people think I am either a Scam Artist or a Gold Digger as soon as I say I am a financial Goddess, or mistake me for a hooker with a Whip when I say Pro-Domme, since this seems to be what most see online, TV or in Advertisements. I am neither. I love what I do, do not offer sex for money or just take without giving in return. If I am anything I would be an unlicensed Therapist both mental, emotional and sexual.

41.) How are you different at all?

I breath what I do, but I also still live in a vanilla life openly. I don’t hide what I do from anyone, and evenso I do not push myself on others, am always open to explain what I do and educate those that are curious. I have found that once someone gets to know you, their understanding changes and they look a lot less hostile at the words.

42.) Tribute fees for both Pro-Domme and Financial Fetishes. What do you require and why have you set your prices at that level?

My Pro-Session Donation / Tribute set at $200 per hour (of course if someone takes more then 3 hours I will work with them) which is a lot cheaper then most Pro-Dommes. I have set it this low, because I am not looking to get rich from doing this. I want those that don’t have a lot be able to serve me, and find comfort and relaxation in my hands at a level that most can afford at least once in a great while. I accept cash only, which cuts out a lot of extra fees and hassles. Now those are not financial Pro-Sessions, since this is the tribute requirement that I keep at. These are for BDSM / Fetish Sessions.

My Financial Domination online tribute requirements the lowest I have ever accepted was $25.00 a week or $100 a month from someone that really could not afford a lot and was a special case to me. However my smallest Tribute requirement should be at least $50.00 a week.

43.) Do you have anyone you consider someone you look at with respect, and if yes? (A Mistress that is older then you maybe? A Trainer, a submissive?)

All of these are real time lifestyle / pro people. Lady C is a venerable lady here in Las Vegas who I have met about 9 month ago and found to be extremely delightful and knowledgeable. She runs a Fetish Store and this is where I love to go and purchase my leather and latex. She is an amazing lady in her late 60’s who is just a good warm hearted lady who has been in the lifestyle for more years that I wish to count.

A lifestyle owned slave named Willerd. This boi is the proof that some slaves are better teachers then their Mistress, he would be the example for any slave on what worship and real service actually means.

And respect of course my husband who is a Master (when he feels the urge) in his own right. He has a lot of wonderful experiences and in his power, is someone to be respected and feared.

44.) When you don’t talk to your submissives, do you ever miss them? If yes, why?
I miss them all the time and simply because if they serve me they over time become part of my family. I always miss my family members.