OT – sharing some information for free stuff and samples!
I know what is the world coming to a Money Mistress who is budget oriented and actually shares more than just demands with her Readers. Don’t worry the world won’t come to an end today or tomorrow (at least not that I received any Memo on that) and the sky won’t fall either.
So I love free samples (Yes I currently have a new Sampler Bitch in testing period) and I sure love to find free stuff I can actually use. I joined up with Listia about 2 Weeks ago and you have probably seen my Twitter Feed go nuts with the things I found. LOL> Sorry about that but when I get excited about something I have to share it.
Now I have started a brand new blog for those of you who love to save and enjoy samples and freebies just as much as I do. Hint boys that is a great way of getting some cool stuff for your Mistresses (including me) if you are on a super tight budget.
First off I want you to do something for me so: Sign up under me at http://www.listia.com/signup/1565188 for Listia where you can post things you no longer want in an auction style system for credits and bid on other free stuff you really want or can use for free. You get 100 Credits instantly when you sign up on that link and if you complete a free auction listing or win a bid I get 500 Credits in turn. So boys great way to serve me without money. Just make sure that if you list an item and someone wins it you really send the item to them. Let’s be fair.
I have just added a new Blog http://freebietradingpost.blogspot.com/ as well on which I will share my items I put up in auctions as well as some great auctions from other Listia Members. Free sample sites that don’t have any catch and coupons as I find them for good sites and products. So check it out and help me tweet and facebook like it please.
Ok only one more hour until my Membership session I need to get going!
Enjoy
Goddess Bella Donna
Financial Domination for beginners online school updates!
The school is officially open for new “Students” and I am extremely excited about tomorrows first Ladies group chat mentorship Session.
The Mistresses have their opportunity tomorrow evening at 7 pm until roughly 8/9 pm depending on how many are joining in and how many questions are represented to meet with me via a Members only chatsession to ask me their questions on applications of the knowledge they have gained.
Articles are great for teaching, mentorship is great for learning to apply what you have learned, which is why I have added the weekly mentorship sessions as part of the membership.
Now I have been told a few times that there is a problem with signing up via verotel and I am in the process of getting it resolved. In the meantime I have added an alternative payment method via venmo for you to sign up and become a Member. I will simply key you in manually and issue to Membership for you until this problem is resolved. So no reason to get discouraged.
Take a look at the different Membership options, pick the one you want. Sign up at www.venmo.com and email me at GoddessBellaDonna@cox.net to let me know which Membership you are interested in. I will send you my link where to make them payment and as soon as I receive it we will get you started. Don’t wait until the last minute so since I need to get prepared for the Mentorship session as well.
The boys get their turn on Sunday for their questions and answer mentorship session and the first official monthly meet and greet will take place on June 1st. Now remember you are not obligated to join the mentorship sessions if you are afraid of letting other Mistresses or submissives see you are new. I would encourage you to take advantage of it however.
One of the sections in the online school is about website or blog building as well. Feel free to ask me questions about this as well if you like. I will be happy to answer any questions for you that I can and am adept in myself. I won’t just make stuff up so. If I don’t know something I will honestly tell you.
We are going to address other fetish topics as well and I am considering at this point adding a monthly random fetish chat session for both Mistresses and submissive Members to the mix. I want to see what the level of participation is before I lock myself into this so. If I end up offering this as part of my online school Membership it is going to be a great way for the Ladies to showcase their skills and perhaps even make connections with the right submissive boys that match their personality and requirements. I want to add a chatroom for those sessions only which I will only link in live when the sessions take place.
Since this is going to cost me to do I won’t get it done until I have my first 30 members. I think that is only fair. I am hoping to get some feedback from the Members as well in due time and will post a monthly opportunity for you to request additional articles and features. It is my great hope to see the school grow and become a great place for those who truly desire to learn about the fetish they enjoy in a comfortable environment.
Even after all these years of being online now I still remember clearly how difficult and uncomfortable it felt being new and not being able to ask questions which were important for me to find the answers to. Being real time for years doesn’t guarantee you that you feel instantly at home online, matter of fact it often doesn’t.
In my book: “Not all that glitters is gold” available at my online bookstore http://www.lulu.com/spotlight/gbdfetish I touch up on that as well as tell you about my experiences as a findom and how I got started.
I am about to add another Article in the advanced topics section about posting good blogs that will showcase the “real you” and gain you the right sort of attention. Guess I better get it done. Yes I am going to add new articles constantly. I even add a couple of my published books for sale in the breaktime corner for your enjoyment.
See you on Thursday Ladies!
Goddess Bella Donna
Financial Domination idiot TV shows make me growl!
Seriously as if financial domination isn’t already misunderstood and looked down on, do we really need yet another moronic TV show that depicts a bunch of clueless individuals posing as financial Mistresses? I think not!
We the Mistresses and you the boys complain a lot about how financial domination has changed into something neither side is really all that satisfied with anymore and then we have to deal with the stupid mainstream media making yet another retarded TV hiring some dumb as women who wouldn’t know what financial domination is if it hit them over the head with a 2×4. Thanks a lot!
I would hope that TV Producer would actually bother researching subject matter a little bit and not just go for plastic dolls in order to get ratings up. No such luck so. Instead we are once again treated to the classic fantasy image of “hot Barbie Doll” ripping guys off. Seriously if you belief this is what financial domination is please go to your nearest gun store, buy a gun and put yourself out of all of our misery before you hurt someone.
Let’s do some simple facts shall we?
Not every financial Mistress looks as if she just came off the table of nip/tuck. We are women of all ages, sizes, nationalities and we aren’t all stupid bimbos who bank on our looks!
We are not scam artists or ripoff artists either. Those who actually are financial Mistresses give a lot of attention to those boys who truly deserve it. No you can’t rent us by the hour like a cheap motel room. We train boys in various fetishes as well. There is a lot more to financial domination than just holding our hands out and making demands. We get involved with our submissives on a very deep emotional basis if they stick around and really seek to submit.
Many of us actually are educated and work. We don’t just live of our boys, but realize that they have obligations as well. It is a legit power exchange that happens there. It isn’t just going out and demanding high priced gifts, wiggle our asses and look pretty. For heaven’s sake it gets so old.
Oh and no we are not all super spoiled brats who giggle with our GF’s behind closed doors about the morons that we once again lead around by the noses. Do we talk about you boys to each other? Yes we do, but you would be surprised at some of the conversations we really have.
Most financial Mistresses are actually very respectful towards their good boys and don’t treat them like they are some sort of freak of nature. I know I treasure mine and take the time to know more than just their wallet or cock size.
Oh and no we aren’t all rich either! We enjoy the fetish because it is about control in the end. We control our boys in ways that most people couldn’t even fathom.
So great another show that misrepresents what we are and once again we are going to see the fetish being flooded by “girls who think this is a quick rich scheme” Yes they won’t last for long when they realize you actually have to have a brain to go along with the tits, ass and legs, but while they are around they are going to hurt a lot of a decent boys again, will make it into more of a laughing stock again and the rest of us Mistresses who have been around for many years will be left once again to clean up the mess. Thanks a lot TV!
Oh and no I am not giving you the name of the show or the link to it, because I won’t be part of spreading that filth around!
Goddess Bella Donna
I don’t like spam and neither do my Readers!
It is a curse we all have to live with, the constant spam bots who leave endless nonsense and links on blogs to drive traffic to goodness knows what. Or the “hired” posters who write the same comments over and over again and then link their comment to some other blog or website. It gets really irritating after a while to have to read through this mess constantly.
This means that sometimes a legit comment may get deleted by accident because it looks spammy to me or my software. Sorry if that happened to you, but as always we all pay for idiot behaviors.
Here is the deal, if you post a comment on my blog in any other language but English I will automatically delete it since I can’t read it and I don’t have the time to use a translation service to check it out. Sorry!
If it is a cookie cutter comment it goes automatically into spam.
If it an endless comment of nonsense words strung together with links up my wazoo it goes into spam and the IP address into the blacklist.
When my Readers come to my blog I want them to enjoy their stay not have to read through a bunch of spam comments. This is my blog and the only one who gets to be annoying on it is ME.
Now here are a few comments I have received and deleted because they had the appearance of spam, but since they were questions I will answer them publicly instead. If they were legit you can get the answer that way.
Where did you get the layout and theme for your blog?
I created it just as I create all the layouts and themes for all my blogs. I bought a software a while ago which allows me to customize the look and feel of my blog and make new themes as I desire. Pretty nifty little thing. The banners are created by me as well. I am glad you like them.
You could get more traffic to your site using xyz company. Have you tried them out yet?
Those are constantly coming into my spam box and guess what I have no interest in using a spam company. If it pisses me off I am sure it would piss others off too. Yes more traffic is nice, but unqualified traffic doesn’t do me lick of good anyways. At least the way I am doing it I know that the folks coming to read my blog are interested in what I have to say. So thanks, but no thanks. By the way for all you fellow blog owners. Linking is great, but if you link to shady companies or get the wrong types of links back to your site, Google will penalize you for it. It isn’t worth it!
I run a webcam girl company would you like to become one of our next Models?
Thanks for the offer, but considering you didn’t read a thing on here you are really barking up the wrong tree. I do occasional webcam training sessions for my online seekers, but I am not a webcam model. Different type of thing and one I am not interested in.
My Mistress told me to confess myself to as many blogs as possible. I am a ….
Well isn’t that lovely. So your Mistress told you to spam her website around to other Ladies who work hard for their traffic? Doesn’t sound very nice to me. By the way those kinds of comments get automatically blacklisted by me. Let’s play nice folks!
A word to the wise Ladies. If you have a website bitch and you use her to get your name out, make sure that she doesn’t spam blogs and sites. If you want her to “confess” herself in your name and add your URL to the confession make sure you contact the Lady who owns the website personally and ask her first if that is ok. You get a lot better response that way and it shows you have some class. I have no problem sharing traffic with some of my fellow Ladies, but I do it via link exchanges and via other traffic trades. With other words it is a give and take.
So there you have the answers you were looking for. I hope that helps you out.
Now back to the regular schedule program. Same Goddess place – same Goddess time!
Waking up energized can make such a difference!
Yeah I finally got some sleep! If you don’t suffer from insomnia from time to time the way I do, you have no clue just how great that feels when you wake up in the morning with more than just an hour of sleep behind you.
Last week was horrible in that department let me tell you. I would make all those plans for filming and creating new assignments for you boys, but my mind and body was just feeling too fuzzy from the lack of sleep again.
Last night so the cycle finally broke again. I go through insomnia cycles which can last anywhere from 3 days to 3 weeks at times which leave me drained. It is almost like a big ray of sunshine coming through clouds when I get the first decent NIGHTS sleep after.
So this morning I feel much happier, energized and rearing to go again. Yeah me! Woot woot! Wonders if the lovely red roses and chocolate covered strawberries I received for Mother”s Day have anything to do with that! 
Now what is on the agenda today? Well let’s see – filming is way overdue I guess. I am going to have to do something about that today and maybe I’ll take some lovely new photos while I am at it. A few new assignments and tasks which I will be putting up for sale and if everything goes off without a hitch I might even do some Teamviewer Wallet Draining Sessions later on this afternoon.
I still need to try my new 3D webcam out too, so that might happen today as well. For now I am still in the let’s totally wake up first stage and check emails, chat with my boys and friends on messenger and in general just get the blood pumping stage. I will be available on http://www.niteflirt.com/mysteria for a bit before the cameras start to roll.
Oh and exciting stuff right? We all like to hear about exciting stuff from time to time. I have my first 4 new people at http://www.financialdominationforbeginners.com which means the first membership sessions round is due to begin this week. I am very encouraged to see that there are still folks out there ready and willing to learn about something they have interest in.
I did a bit of updating and adding on my new personal cashslave application site http://www.bbwmoneymistress.com yesterday as well. No glitz and glam, just the facts Ma’am. I figure I have enough glitz and glam, photos and other lovely things all over my blogs and sites that I really don’t need to add that there as well. You know me… do some research puppets.
Talking about my weird sense of humor 
I got sidetracked on the new Financial Domination Magazine Issue since real life does happen to get in the way. My home is turning into Grand Central Station it seems from time to time and it is really hard concentrating on writing when you have people coming in and out of your house. Sorry about that, but I will get it done this week. That was not what I was talking about so. During one of the visits from a friend a couple of things happened which gave me a wonderful Idea for a new fetish fiction book. The topic is all about humiliation and tease ‘n denial. Where some Ladies excel in verbal humiliation and calling guys names, I am most adept at what I would call “action humiliation” and the “southern charm approach”. You know when you are being humiliated but you are really not sure right of the beginning if she was dousing you or being sweet. Humiliation with a smile. Pointing out facts which will have your ears burning and your face turning red but so sweetly done that you can’t help but melt at the same time. Being put into an impossible situation only to feel like an absolute fool for not succeeding. Those are more along my lines of humiliation.
I never really enjoyed “name calling”. Normally when I start calling you anything but a Gentleman it means that you are on my everlasting shitlist. Of course we all know that ever so often certain people need to be gently reminded that their blood supply is running a bit short in their upper brains and that this is causing a few misfires causing them to go into a state of idioticy, but eh…
So yeah that is what is on the horizon for a new fetish fantasy book from yours truly. Where ever does she find the time? Heck if I know, but when you have passion for something you make time. It is called prioritizing! Some people party for relaxation and fun – I write books!
OK folks I am out of here. Daytime is wasting away. Have fun and remember to be good to one another. Life is way too short to be mean! Just remember the toes you step on today, might be inside the boot that kicks your ass one day. We all have a bad day from time to time, give others the benefit of the doubt and you my just discover that you will be a much happier person for it!
*winks*
Goddess Bella Donna
Happy Mother’s Day to all of us Moms!
Being a Mom is one of the most rewarding and one of the hardest “jobs” you will ever undertake in your life. There is no retirement from this, you are always a Mom. You don’t get vacations from it either. No matter how old they get, you will still worry about them every day.
Being a Mom you learn to put yourself second. Being a Mom you have to be so many things all at once. You learn to smile when all you want to do is cry. Watching them grow up is hard as well. Watching them leave your nest even harder. Knowing that there will be things you just can’t fix for them anymore, can tear your heart apart.
A Mom has to be strong and gentle all at the same time. These days being a Mom is a choice and there are many women who have chosen not to go down that path for whatever personal reason.
Some women are MOms and truly don’t deserve that honorable title. Others will always do their best no matter how difficult it may get. Moms are as different as snowflakes in a Winters Storm, but we all have one thing in common. We love our children and want them to have a better life than we had no matter how good it was. We always want better for them.
So a big hug to all my fellow Moms out there. May your day bring you joy and pleasure. If you are fortunate to have a Mom, give her a hug and let her know that you love her today. Gentlemen don’t forget to appreciate the Moms in your life. Give her a gift and that includes the Mom of your own children.
Happy Mother’s Day everyone!
Goddess Bella Donna
Financial Domination online school for beginners and intermediates now open!
I have talked about it for a while now and had a short setback in getting it live. Now I am proud to announce the my Financial Domination online school for beginners www.financialdominationforbeginners.com is finally open for Members.
After almost 3 years of educating new to the financial domination fetish folks via my blog http://thefinancialdominationmagazine.com , my magazines and my book “Financial Domination without the smoke and mirrors!” (available at: http://www.lulu.com/spotlight/gbdfetish) I have taken it a step further and opened the financial domination online school via Membership based options.
What is included in the Membership?
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My entire book – chapter by chapter – Financial Domination without the smoke and mirrors 2nd Edition.
- Advanced topics like Contracts, Consensual Blackmail, Teamviewer, Dual Domination how to, and much more.
- Financial Domination Games you can play with your submissives.
- Website or blog building advice as well as how to gain traffic to your sites.
- Community etiquette for beginners
- 2 weekly Mentorship Sessions with me live! One Ladies only, one boys only
- Monthly Meet and Greet live chat session for both Ladies and boys.
- Advice for Switches in financial domination
- The Breaktime corner! This includes fun material and some of the best known silly statements or excuses you will hear from boys and Ladies alike. Jokes, fictional stories and more.
- Opportunity Corner: This is for the Ladies who wish to interact with each other via link exchanges and are looking for a sisterhood to support each other in learning.
- Opportunity Corner for boys: In this section I will allow you Ladies to post “service only” positions for submissives who love to be little Twitter Bitches, working on websites and more.
I have opted for 4 different Memberships you may try out.
| 7 Days trial Membership – non-recurring | $ 29.99 |
| 1 month (30 Days) recurring | $ 49.99 |
| 3 months recurring (Pay for two months and get one free) plus you have the option to renew this at $120 for 4 months at the end of your initial period! | $100.00 |
| Yearly Membership non-recurring – available via alternate payment option only | $400.00 |
The first 3 options are billed via Verotel.com a very reliable 3rd party billing processing company which is adult friendly and I have used for over 7 years now.
The fourth option you need to contact me for and I will give you different options to pay, depending where you are from.
I am constantly adding new content to the school site and update information as it becomes available to me.
It is called for beginners, but it has a lot of information in it even for the intermediate to some advanced folks. Remember that when it comes to financial domination you can never learn enough. This membership based site is geared towards both genders and both sides of the fence.
If you are interested please visit http://www.financialdominationforbeginners.com and join!
I will see you during the mentorship sessions!
Goddess Bella Donna
BBW Money Mistress desires – 3 small tribute opportunities!
No, I am not looking for 3 small tribute opportunities, I have three small tribute opportunities for you. I just know some smartass was going to ask me that. Hahaha
These tribute opportunities aren’t positions or anything long term just 3 small things I want right now and you may give to me in order to make me smile. There are no long term service strings attached.
I will list them in the order of priority for me. All of them are fun items for me to enjoy. Yup little luxuries you may give to me. Isn’t it lovely?
I want 3 Buddy Guy Concert Tickets for May 19th 2012 at the Smith Center here in Las Vegas. The total for these Tickets is $130 and I would love to have it paid into my venmo.com account. So sign up for venmo: https://venmo.com/i/goddessbelladonna.Aqa.ucs and send your tribute for MY Tickets to https://venmo.com/GoddessBellaDonna If one of you boys takes care of all 3 Tickets for me by Monday morning I will give him a reward.
My Vases are empty! I want some flowers! I have 3 Vases that need filling. You may either send me cash to go and buy the flowers at https://venmo.com/GoddessBellaDonna or you can have them FTD to me. Get a hold of me on YIM Goddess.BellaDonna and ask me for the address or give me your Teamviewer login and I will pick out the ones I want, enter the shipping address myself and have you pay for them with your Credit Card.
2 E-Certificates ; 1 for Fandango Movie Tickets ($100) and 1 for Ebay.com https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_ebay-gift-certificate (Goal is $200 for Ebay) You can send the E-Certificates to GoddessBellaDonna@cox.net
Now who is going to make me a very happy Lady?
Yup even a Mistress can have serious “duh” moments!
Duh moments! Aren’t they fun? You know the moment it comes out of your mouth that this was a serious “duh, no shit?” I can get so good at them matter of fact that years ago my family asked me if I was done with my cape yet. After looking at them a bit puzzled and them having a good chuckle at my expense, they explained to me that they were talking about the cape that has a big C O on the back. *Strikes a pose with a long black cape inscribed with a lovely C O in gold lettering flowing behind her. Hands on hips and head held high. Out of nowhere you hear the booming voice announce – Captain Obvious!!!*
Go ahead, you can laugh. I did, right after I chased my offenders around the house in 5 inch heels and them giggling at me all the way. Ah, but revenge is sweet. I tickled them until they almost peed themselves once I caught them… *Enter Evil Genius Laughter here*
Apparently I am really good at not just verbally having duh moments but action wise as well. This weekend must be full of them since so far I have racked up several duh moments already.
I had logged into http://www.niteflirt.com/mysteria yesterday and this morning. After all of yesterday and this morning with no call on the listing I was logged in on, I was wondering what the fuck was up now. Was it just slow again or was there a glitch. Nope neither, the glitch was with me. I had gone out to see “The Avengers” in the movie theater Thursday Evening and turned my Cellphone off. Guess who forgot to turn her Cellphone back on and the calls get routed through there. Yup, that would be me… DUH! Well it is fixed now at least, sorry boys if you tried to call me.
Hot Weather and I have a real love / hate relationship. I just love to hate it! I went out today to run some errands and it is somewhere in the 90′s today. My lovely blue Mini-Van has no air-conditioner so as we are driving behind the morons from hell who love to go around the corners at a speed of 80 MPH and then suddenly slow down to 20MPH I was slowly croaking of heat. Yes Las Vegas – dry heat, but you still feel as if you are cooking inside a vehicle when it is crawling along.
All throughout the Winter months I don’t want to have to go back home right away because I spent so much time in my office (home office) and alone. Today when we got home I voiced the opposite sentiment. “Yes, finally!” My husband looks at me and dead pan delivery states: “I just love it how it went from… Do we have to go home already? …to… “Yes, finally!” I looked at him dead serious and told him. “Well you know I can’t stand the heat. So now that the heat is here, I don’t want to be out in it and I am trying to avoid all Idiots!” Big grin from my husband and the dead pan answer: “So you are planning on not going outside and not going online either?” Yup “duh”!
Not to mention the little fact that I found it absolutely necessary to inform my guests this weekend that the food which I just got done cooking at 400 in the oven for almost 2 hours was hot, so please be careful eating it.
Don’t worry so I can get real good with moments like this as well during a session. During a play session in which tight bondage was involved I told a submissive whose favorite thing is tight bondage, that this might get a bit more uncomfortable than usual after a while. My boy just looked at me and right before I put a gag in his mouth smirks: “Thank you Goddess, and here I thought I would be able to just wiggle myself comfortable if possible. I would have never thought that staying in a tight bondage position for the next hour could be even remotely uncomfortable.” Yup he was gagged and yes he paid for that, but damn it “duh!”
On of the real “duh” moments I get from boys all the time (are you boys doing this on purpose or are you all just wired the same way?) is:
So you are a financial Mistress?
Yes among many other things.
“You mean you expect me to hand over money to you?”
Duh!
It is a good thing I have a sense of humor and can laugh at myself. The thing is, sometimes it is the boys I encounter that make real duh statements and other times it is me. We all do them, so why not just enjoy them. What was your favorite “duh” moment you ever did yourself? I would love to hear them in the comment box!
BBW Las Vegas Pro-Dom Fetish of the Month – Pro-session Special for May 2012
This month I have decided to make “SMOKING FETISH” and CBT the fetish of the month for my real time Pro-Session 1 hour appointments here in Las Vegas. Remember that if you request a session for the fetish of the months special you will not get any other fetishes included into the session.
This month I have opted for 2 areas to be included and so I am raising the fee to $200 for the hour instead of the regular fetish of the month for $150 for the hour. Still I think it is being generous to you since my regular Pro-Session on hour appointments are $350 an hour.
This special goes until the end of May. You may apply to me using the application process as seen above in the information links. Put May fetish of the Month special in the text body so I know.
Goddess Bella Donna
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